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The Callus Index

Every topic Rue has touched. The full letters — question and response — live on Substack. This page shows you what's been answered so you know whether to search the archive or write something new. Topics are added as letters are published.

A
Amputee intimacy and fetish stigma
How to navigate foot and limb attraction as an amputee without feeling like an object
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B
Body odor and attraction
Partners who are drawn to natural body scent — gym socks, skin, sweat
free letter this month
F
Fetish disclosure — when and how
Telling a new partner about foot or kink interests
coming
Foot pics — buying and what it means
Two years of purchases, the feelings involved, whether something is wrong
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L
Limb difference and body image
Silicone foot covers, showing off adaptive devices, reclaiming visibility
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O
Olfactophilia — gym socks, sweat, natural scent
The neuroscience of scent attraction, pair-bonding, and why this is neither pathology nor punchline
free letter this month
P
Parasocial intimacy — foot content creators
Does she care about you? What the feeling is and what to do with it
coming
Plantar pain and anxiety
When physical foot tension and emotional tension arrive together
coming
S
Silicone foot covers — showing off adaptive devices
Visibility, consent, and the right to be seen on your own terms
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Somatic grounding for anxiety
Foot-to-floor techniques, what they do, how long they take
coming

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